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By Paul White, Ph.D.

Engaged employees – those who feel connected to the mission of the organization and understand their role in its success – are a result of a combination of factors. These can include involvement in decision-making, considering employee input, opportunity for job development, and sensing that supervisors are concerned about workers’ well being. This continues to be a challenge – 50.7% of employees surveyed by Gallup in June were “not engaged” in their workplaces, and 16.7% were “actively disengaged”.

A foundation of appreciation can enhance employee engagement. These core principles are needed for appreciation to be communicated effectively.

Core Principles for Effectively Communicated Appreciation

  • Make sure your praise is specific and personal.  The most common mistake organizations and supervisors make is that their communication is general and impersonal.  They send blast emails:  “Good job. Way to go team.” But they have no specific meaning to the individual who stayed late to get the project completed.  Use your colleague’s name and tell specifically what they do that makes your job easier.
  • Realize that other types of actions can be more impactful than words for many people. Some employees do not value verbal praise (the “words are cheap” mentality).  For many people, they have grown to not believe compliments from others, expecting them primarily to be an act of manipulation.  Other actions can be more impactful for these individuals, like spending time with them or helping them get a task done.
  • Use the language of appreciation valued by the recipient. Not everyone likes public recognition or social events. For many introverts or busy people, going to a “staff appreciation dinner” is more like torture than a reward for doing a good job.  They may prefer getting a gift card for a bookstore and staying at home and reading.  Find out what they value and communicate in that language.
  •  Separate affirmation from constructive criticism or instruction. If you want the positive message to be heard “loud and clear”, don’t follow your affirmation with a “Now, if you would only…” message.  Don’t give them a compliment and then tell them how they could do the task better.  They will only remember the “constructive” criticism, and may not even hear the positive.
  • Absolutely be genuine Don’t try to fake it, or overstate your appreciation. People want appreciation to be genuine, not contrived.

Good things happen when individuals feel truly valued and appreciated for their contributions:  employee relationships are less tense, communication becomes more positive, policies and procedures are followed more and staff turnover decreases. When supervisors and colleagues build a foundation of authentic appreciation, employees are likely to be engaged and motivated to fulfill the mission and goals of the company.

 Paul White, Ph.D., is a psychologist, author, speaker and consultant who makes work relationships work.  He is co-author of Rising Above a Toxic Workplace and The 5 Languages of Appreciation in the Workplace.  For more information, go to .