By Colleen DeBaise

Editor’s Note: The following is adapted from  Start a Successful Business: Expert Advice to Take Your Startup From Idea to Empire, published this month by Inc. Media and Amacom, a division of the American Management Association.

Sure, you want to be an empire maker. But first you need an idea. A really good one. Some might say brilliant.

Startup ideas can come from just about anywhere—truly. Let’s look at the most common sources:

  • A theme or problem from your daily life
  • An emerging trend
  • A gap in a specific market
  • A drive to help others in an inventive way
  • A special skill or expertise that you possess

Which is best? We’ve asked scores of successful entrepreneurs and noted experts this very same question. And far and away, they agree: It’s that first one, the problem or “pain point” that you personally experience on a regular basis, that is the ideal motivation for starting a company.

While you can (and should) pull from any of the sources on the above list for your startup idea, it’s wise to draw primarily from your own need or frustration. Why, exactly? Starting a company will require long hours and seemingly endless focus. Both are much easier when you feel a personal connection to the purpose behind the company.

“The advice I have for entrepreneurs is….number one, you need to solve a real problem. I look for those problems in my own life. Mint was because I had a challenge managing my own finances using Quicken and Microsoft Money. So I built it for myself.’”

—Aaron Patzer, founder of web-based personal finance service, which he ultimately sold to Intuit for $170 million.

If you don’t have that burning, personal desire to see your concept come to fruition, we don’t recommend pursuing your startup idea.

That’s because the early days of starting a company are notoriously difficult. You might find yourself questioning whether you’ve made the right call. That’s especially true as the months or years drag on, and you’ve decided to quit a lucrative career, invest personal savings, and sacrifice time away from family to chase your dream. (Many seasoned entrepreneurs, by the way, say it takes at least three years to find your startup footing, and that many newbies give up too soon.)

But beyond that, there’s another reason why it makes sense to let your personal challenge lead the way. Chances are, others are experiencing the same problem as well — even if they’re not entirely aware of it. They’re called your customers.

“I spent all my hard-earned money on this one pair of cream pants that hung there, and I decided to cut the feet out of control top pantyhose one day, and I threw them on under my white pants, and went to the party. I looked fabulous, I felt great, I had no panty lines, I looked thinner and smoother…and I remember thinking, ‘This should exist for women.’

—Sarah Blakeley, inventor of Spanx underwear, whose net worth is now valued at more than $1 billion.

Of course, you might say to yourself: “Wait a minute. Yes, this is a personal frustration of mine. And others probably experience it as well. But chances are, someone else is already working on a solution.”

Guess what: You’re exactly right. In some form or another, nearly every idea is already out there. But how you implement your idea, position your new concept, and execute can be the defining factor of success.

Countless billion-dollar companies are based on ideas that were just tweaks of what was there before. Facebook, for example, is far from an original idea. Social networks had been around for nearly a decade, in companies such as SixDegrees, Friendster, and Myspace. Facebook’s success didn’t come from the idea itself but instead from countless iterations around how the product could reach customers and achieve a competitive advantage.

“Every company needs a starting point,” says Eric Paley, managing partner of seed-stage venture capital fund Founder Collective. “I encourage entrepreneurs to focus more on falling in love with the problems they want to solve rather than their initial ideas.”

As founders dig deeply into that original hypothesis, they will learn, adapt, hit walls, adapt again, and build critical expertise that they never considered when starting out. “In fact, in many cases the original idea later seems humorous or at least incredibly naive compared with the lengths to which the start-up needs to go to become successful,” Paley says.

Finding Your Niche

The best business ideas come from your strongest areas of interest, says Ryan Robinson, an entrepreneur and writer who teaches people how to create self-employed careers.

When the going gets rough (and it will), you need to be motivated beyond just the lure of dollar signs. If you’re only in it for the money, you’ll either give up or be quickly pushed out of the market by people who genuinely care about what they’re doing and the people they’re helping—they’ll be more motivated than you.

If you’re not sure what your interests are, or which of them may potentially lead to a profitable business opportunity, ask yourself the following questions. The answers may help your find your way.

  • What are your hobbies?
  • What is the most meaningful part of your day?
  • What are some topics you could enjoy writing a 1,000 thousand-word article about?
  • What do you love doing?
  • What is an achievement that’d make you feel particularly proud of yourself?
  • Are there any specific aspects or functions that you love about your current job?
  • How about any childhood dreams you still find intriguing?
  • If you had to choose just one thing to be remembered by, what would it be?

Once you’ve pinpointed a business idea and settled on a vision, it’s time to run with it.

Colleen DeBaise is contributing editor at Inc., podcast host at The Story Exchange, founder of the Hampton Bee, and author of Start a Successful Business: Expert Advice to Take Your Startup from Idea to Empire and The Wall Street Journal Complete Small Business Guidebook. She has written for The New York TimesEntrepreneur, BusinessWeekSmartMoney, and other national publications. @colleendebaise